There are only 11 days until your 40th birthday. I think this virtue of yours is something that has always been with you for all your 40 years.
You never "put on airs" or try to pretend you are bigger and better than you are. You are modest, and actually prefer when people don't shine the spotlight on you. You don't do things to gain recognition or praise, even though you often deserve both. You are definitely not a pretender, and for that I am eternally grateful.
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